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Archive for November, 2008

Many people feel at a loss for how to help children who are experiencing grief – especially if we are also trying to deal with our own grief.  Any adult in a child’s life has an impact and the opportunity to help a child handle grief – teachers, childcare providers, neighbors, and other family members [...]

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How often have you thought, said or heard someone else say something like
“I lost __________, but so and so lost <insert something ‘worse’> or
“I lost __________, but I still have __________.”
The implied message in both statements is that you shouldn’t feel so bad because someone else experienced a “bigger” loss or because you didn’t lose [...]

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This post isn’t as clearly about grief as most of my others.  However, there is much occurring now in our society, in our world, that many people are grieving.  The United States just elected a new President – one who promises to bring change.  Change and grief often go hand in hand.  These are my [...]

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Break down to Heal

Sometimes the most healing thing a person can do is fall apart. Break down. Sob and cry and shake.  Get messy.  Crawl in to bed and curl up in the fetal position.  Sob so hard your body shutters, your eyes get red and swollen, and snot runs out your nose. Wail.  Scream.  Beat the crap [...]

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